Your Story Isn't Over Yet!

Never give up on someone with a mental illness. When “I” is replaced by “WE”, illness becomes wellness
— Shannon L. Alder

It is…

SUICIDE PREVENTION DAY !!!

ANDDDD…

TRENDY TUESDAZE!

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If you see the semicolon used for suicide awareness this is why:

“Where the author could’ve ended the sentence but decided to keep going; the author is you and the sentence is your life.”

For my statistic lovers, here you go.

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A SUICIDE EVERY 12 SECONDS IN THE US.

EVERY 40 SECONDS WORLDWIDE.

HEARTBREAKING.

SO YES.

THIS NEEDS TO BE TALKED ABOUT.

MORE AWARENESS NEEDS TO HAPPEN.


If you are having suicidal thoughts, do not be ashamed. So did I. If you do not feel comfortable talking to a friend, or family or even the hotline you can text HOME to 741741 to speak to a trained counselor.


WHATEVER IT TAKES, PLEASE REACH OUT.

One conversation can change a life and save a life.


For the people that want to help raise awareness or help prevent more suicides in the community check this list out below.

  1. Reach out to the people you love and care about and check in on them as much as you check social media.

  2. When someone says they feel depressed or they feel like they are struggling with their mental health, DO NOT say get over it. Be there for them. Listen to them. Comfort them.

  3. Understand that suicide is not a choice. Look at it as if it is Stage 4 Depression. When the doctor tells cancer patients there is no hope and they have less than 6 months to live. This is what our brains tell us when we have suicidal thoughts, that there is no hope and the only option left is death.

  4. Do not judge. Try to understand. Do your research.

  5. There are free support groups if they cannot afford therapy, lead them to it. Help them not feel alone during this difficult time. Advocate for them do not be against them.

  6. GIVE THEM HOPE! Do not tell them to just forget about the past and move on.

  7. BE KIND. You do not know what someone is going through behind closed doors.


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If only the world could have more loving vibes.

More transparent vibes.

Less bullying and judgmental vibes.

We would all feel less alone and more welcome to be our full beautiful selves.

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Whatever pain you have endured, you survived it and I am proud of you.

This is harder than people think.

But fuck what they think.

Keep going.

Because what you think about you is what matters.

And you have to believe you can do this.

Because you can!!!

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KEEP GOING.

KEEP GOING

KEEP GOING.

You might feel invisible, unnoticed and unloved right now.

You might think the world would be better off without you.

I understand.

I have felt that most of my life.

But you matter.

And so does your life.

The world needs you.

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It may feel impossible to put the broken pieces back together.

But nothing is impossible.

It may feel impossible to feel whole again.

But there is a way.

Reach out, get help, dig deep, learn to love life again and press restart.

You are stronger than you feel right now.

You are powerful.

You are a survivor.

WHATEVER YOU DO…

DO NOT GO ON THIS JOURNEY ALONE.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

YOUR FAMILY OR FRIENDS MIGHT NOT UNDERSTAND BUT YOU CAN CREATE YOUR OWN FAMILY, THEY ARE OUT THERE.

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I had a suicide attempt on 09.18.17

Yet I am alive.

I am here.

I understand the pain and just wanting to be happy and be okay.

But it is okay to not be okay.

Just don’t hold it in like I did.

There is freedom on the other side of admitting you need help.

There is nothing wrong with that.

I still see a therapist and go to support groups sometimes.

Your life is purposeful and as tough this journey is, you are tougher.

YOU GOT THIS!



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PEACE & LOVE MY GULLIES.